Given that it is estimated that almost 30% of American families have a least one member with a disability, it is surprising that more people don’t make a plan for how they’ll cope following a disaster. I believe that if you have a family member with a disability, you have an obligation to ensure that a plan exists. When I cared for my elderly, frail parents and husband, it was paramount to me to have a plan to ensure they had the best chance for survival as possible.
For my parents, that meant thinking through who services we would need to keep my mother comfortable at home (she was on oxygen and in great danger of falling), and my father safe in the nursing home (he had dementia). Had disaster struck, I would have been trying to ensure their safety in two different locations. That could have been an extremely trying situation had it come to pass with no planning to fall back on.
Knowing alternate sources for the resources needed to maintain my mother’s comfort at home helped. I made a list of the companies that provided oxygen in our area, and in areas a bit further away in case no one in our locale would be able to meet her needs. I also spoke with several friends who were willing to provide caregiving services if needed. Knowing those plans were in place helped me feel more in control of the situation.
I spoke with the staff at the nursing home where Dad lived so I understood what their plan was for responding to disaster. I wanted to know where they would take him if he had to be evacuated in a hurry, and how they would meet his needs and keep him safe.
Having a plan for how I could best be of help to my parents made it much easier for me to manage the stress of caring for them. Part of being responsible for their care meant having a plan that addressed their special needs in the event of a disaster.